Double Solo Play

Masturbation is typically seen as something you should do behind closed doors, hidden from your partner. So watching your partner get off solo can be a really intense experience.

Masturbating in front of your partner shows them, in intimate detail, how you like to be touched. Mutual masturbation is pretty much the most intimate thing you can do with a partner.

If you are shy, you can try it side-by-side. If you prefer intimacy, one can lie on their back and the other on top while you're pleasuring yourselves. And if you are open-minded enough, you can face each other with legs spread wide for a full-frontal face-off.

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Prostate Play

Let him lie comfortably on his back with his legs apart. Sit between them and start massaging his penis with your hand.

To stimulate his prostate, you need to slide a finger inside his anus about 5-8 centimeters and then curl the tip up towards his balls. The position of his prostate in his ass is similar to the position of your G-spot in your vagina. Keep your nails short and use lots of lube!

Bonus tip: You may feel better about massaging your guy’s prostate if you use a glove.

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Do Kegels Together

Exercise No. 1: Choose a Woman on top position. With his entire cock inside you, keep your pelvic floor muscles tightened for 3 to 6 seconds. Then relax your muscles completely for another 10 seconds. Repeat these exercises 10 times, then take a longer break during which you can make love. Repeat the whole series two more times.

Exercise No. 2: With his cock inside you, contract your pelvic floor muscles and hold on the outward thrust. On the inward thrust, relax your pelvic floor muscles. The contraction of your muscles intensifies your orgasmic pleasure and provides a nice, tight fit for you both.

Bonus tip: Your partner can give you a valuable feedback. Without you telling him beforehand when your muscles are tight and when they are relaxed, he has to feel it himself!