Strangers in the Bar

Role-playing can be awkward. Scenarios like "Doctor and Patient", "Cop vs. Criminal", or "Boss and Secretary" often involve forced dialogues that leave many people squirming. However, there's one role-play fantasy that breaks the mold and adds a touch of excitement to a long-term relationship: "The Strangers in the Bar".

Picture this – both of you dress up as if it's your very first date and head to a bar, separately. Meet there, and engage in conversation as if you're encountering each other for the first time. Charm each other with playful banter, dropping ambiguous hints that keep the atmosphere charged.

Then head home and let the magic continue. Make love as if you're two people who have just met, exploring each other with the eagerness of newfound passion.

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Edging

Edging, also known as orgasm control, is a technique where a person gets right up to the point where they're about to orgasm, then stops stimulation, waits, and then starts the buildup all over again. The aim of edging is to make sex last longer and intensify the orgasm.

How to do it: Get aroused through your favorite foreplay activities or positions. Make sure your partner provides cues about when they're going to climax. Then reduce or completely stop stimulation until they cool down and start the stimulation again. Repeat as long as desired.

Warning: Some individuals may not enjoy edging. Delaying orgasm might lead to a phenomenon called a ruined ("half") orgasm or disappearing orgasm. In these instances, the orgasm may feel less powerful than usual, resulting in no satisfaction afterward, or you may feel on the edge but never actually reach orgasm, even when ready. Both experiences can be very frustrating and sometimes even physically uncomfortable.

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Her Turn

Tie all four of his limbs to the bed, blindfold him with a scarf, put headphones in his ears. Now he's all yours, and you can do whatever you want with him. You can kiss him, stroke him, scratch him, play with his nipples and penis, rub against his thigh.

You can sit on your partner's face and let him pleasure you with his tongue. And not only that, but you can ride his penis like there is no tomorrow too. :-)

Bonus tip: If he can't control himself and climaxes before you do, don't despair. Give him a little time to recover and then continue until you are satisfied as well.