His Turn

Sit on your knees with your back against the wall and put your hands behind your back. Open your mouth, cover your teeth with your lips, and slowly, with light suction, take his penis into your mouth. Remove again by releasing the suction. Then move your mouth to the tip and lick over there. Repeat.

Maintain intense eye contact with him the entire time.

He can set the pace by holding your hair. When he starts bucking and thrusting, it's important not to change anything you are doing.

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I just want to touch

Lie your partner on their belly, pillow under the hips, legs spread wide. Part their butt cheeks with one hand, while a single finger from the other hand will brush just around the anus or across the anus. Play for a very long time, 15-20 minutes is the minimum.

Then press against the anus with a well-lubricated and nail-trimmed finger. And wait a minute or two. Then press a little more, penetrate, and leave it there. Be still, maybe for another 3-5 minutes.

Only then start moving your finger. Very gently and very slowly. Finally, you can add oral sex, handjob, or a little spanking.

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CAT

Over 1/3 of women need some kind of clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and more than half of women prefer a combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation during sex.

The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is considered to be a sex position that should allow women to experience orgasm during penetration. CAT aims to simulate a woman's clitoris with her partner's pubic bone to create the friction necessary for orgasm.

How to do it: She lies on her back with her legs open while he is on top, just like in the regular missionary position. But instead of thrusting deeply in and out, he has to move his whole body forward and backward over hers, in order to rub against her clit.

Bonus: If you want to adjust the angle, try putting a pillow under her butt.